Sensitive girl

As usual Chloe’s daycare will be closed during school holiday. I have no choice to send her to Cavin’s daycare. Initially she is okay but since Tuesday I found her with sad face after back home. She sobbed and cried out when I asked her what happen. She said she miss daddy and mommy. I told her we need to work.

Asked her whether she don’t like going to daycare? She replied no, she likes.

Asked her whether she feel scare at daycare? She replied no, she is not scares.

Then I asked further, why kakak beat your or scold you? Then only she replied yes.

I asked her why? Did you do wrong thing? She immediately cried loud and said NO I didn’t do wrong thing.

Then how come kakak beat your hand? Then she replied that is because she brings her brother going in kitchen for snack.

That was because kakak feel scare. Kitchen is dangerous with hot water and fire. That why kakak beat your hand to warn you. I tried my best to comfort her.

I thought the case closed. But yesterday she sobbed again. She sobbed and asked me to buy her a new school bag. (We dropped by a shop to look for school bag, but didn’t buy as can’t find a suitable one for her). I get mad and told her the bag not nice, will buy when found a nice one.

During dinner she was sobbing again. My blood shoots up and scolded her. She cried and told me she miss daddy and mommy. Aiks she gets emotional again, how come she is so sensitive now.

Then I asked further and she told me pitifully that she wanted to sleep with her brother in daycare. But aunty let her sleep with other kid because another toddler was sleeping with Cavin.

I told her, never mind you can sleep with other friend.

No I want to sleep with my brother because I love him so much. Huhuhuhu she cried and protest again.

So I promised her to inform the caretaker to let both of them nap together.

Maybe she feels lonely as no friend there. Maybe she not use to the new environment. She said she wants to play with her brother only. I asked her try to make friend and play with other kids and she agreed to try that.

I really feel clueless how come she can’t make friend there, while she can play happily at her art class with those unfamiliar children. This is not the first time she went over that daycare. I’m really clueless. *scratch head